So you want love life? Tired of being single and alone? True love is what you should be looking for in your quest to find love. True love means loving everything about someone including their flaws. It’s loving the way they mispronounce words, how their belly sometimes pops out over their belt, and how their hair is way too frizzy. So for you to find love, here are a few tips to help make this tough task a bit easier.
1. Be confident. Yung tamang angas lang. Pero wag naman yung yabang. Mas nakaka-impress ang taong nagsasabi ng totoo sa sarili niya. Wag maging trying hard. Kalma lang.
Have you ever felt the urge to approach a man/woman you’re attracted to, start a conversation with him/her and possibly even ask him/her on a date, but find that you’re too nervous or lack the confidence to do so? Perhaps you are comfortable enough to talk to them, but most of the time you are unsure of exactly how you should start a conversation with them. Don’t act too crazy or speak randomly about strange things that don’t involve the conversation. Keep it calm and talk at a normal pace. Just be confident and stay true. Approaching someone you like can be nerve-racking, especially if you’re inexperienced and unprepared.
2. Huwag hahabulin ang pinakamaganda/ pinakaguwapo sa lugar nyo. Piliin mo lagi yung hindi pansinin.
Stop chasing someone who doesn’t share your romantic feelings. Why would you want to waste your time with a man who’s telling you he doesn’t feel the same way as you?
3. Wag masyadong choosy. Unang-una, hindi ka naman ganun kagandahan o kaguwapuhan talaga.
Stop being so picky. Standards are important, but in the end, the little things don’t matter. This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t have expectations, but unless all the stars magically align and the universe conjures up someone who fits your specifications, you’re never going to be happy because there will be no someone who fulfills your detailed wish list.
4. Huwag makikipag-date sa kung sino-sino.
If you’re single and you wish you were not; if you’re ready for and excited about being in a loving partnership, you need to be dating. Dating is an opportunity to explore the ups and downs of being with different types of people, to see who fits, feels comfortable, who compliments you and your lifestyle nicely. But, here’s the tricky part — dating also means looking for someone who is equally interested in and attracted to you, who wants to be with you, to explore possibilities with you. But remember, date only one person at a time.
5. Makipag-socialize. Sumali ka sa networking, paluwagan o kaya sumama ka sa mga friends mong satanista.
Socialize with people. Getting to know new people and growing your circle of friends will always be enriching to your life. Look for people who are somewhat different than your current friends, but not necessarily too far away from what works for you. They will create new experiences for you while you still go along fine with them.
6. Wag mo hahanapin ang pag-ibig. Hayaan mong ang pag-ibig ang humanap sa iyo.
Don’t look for love, let love find you. That’s why it’s called falling in love, you don’t force yourself to fall, you just do. Don’t look for love, it will come for you. The more you expect for it, the more it will avoid you. Live life at your best, and surely one day, you’ll suddenly say “I’m in love.”